Gay dating tip
Queer men are varying shades of the rainbow." —Chris, 25 "I went from a 225-pound fat boy to a 145-pound athletic guy.As I lost more weight and gained muscle mass, I began to notice a change in my looks.I was becoming attractive, to the point where other guys were staring and had lust in their eyes.To say I wish I was a big boy again would not be too far from the truth.For example: We date a guy who is super hot- but has no job.(or) We date a guy who only wants an open relationship- because we fear being alone.Why do we look at the success of other gay men and find reasons to justify why they’re not deserving of it?Why do we make fun of fellow gay men who are different from us just for being themselves?
The dynamic of two men being together IS DIFFERENT. Allow yourself time to balance physical attraction with other important elements like basic communication and similar outlooks and interests. You can't take a relationship faster than the pace at which BOTH guys are comfortable.